I've been posting in we're seperated. My H left me for OW. He claims that nothing would have happened between them if it wasn't over between us. Nice of him to tell me that it was over when he decided this. Anyway. I stil hope and pray for my M. Right now I have let go, and and trying to move on without him. I just am trying to deal with the issue of the A. I've taken the giant leap that he may wish to reconcile, not that he is giving me any indication. Actually he is quite happy with things the way they are. But I have hit this wall. Getting past her. I keep thinking that he's got to show me that she is totally gone b4 I let him back into my life. Totally gone, telling me the A is over, changing jobs, disposing of all the gifts that she gave him. Over. I know that is selfish. I know that he would find it unreasonable and controlling. Control being an issue for us. But how do I get passed this. Am I unreasonable? I know that I am putting the cart b4 the horse and all, but I can't stop thinking about this.
