Corri,

Yeah - I had a Pices boyfriend as a young girl. Pure fireworks. My current H is a Libra. His even keel is good for me but...

Excellent comments about making the transition from girl to woman. After 30 I gained far more ownership of myself and my sexuality. It is part of what ultimately caused me to leave ex-H. My integrity wouldn't let me stay. I think that is part of my problem with current H. He doesn't own his own sexuality yet. He is a bit of a late bloomer - (first intercourse at 30yo).

I digress.

Stig,

I do in fact enjoy hanging with you and everyone on this board. I also enjoy lending a "hand" to people here - in a nonsexual way, of course.

Corri gave you some good stuff here. That inventory is key. Once you are clear on who you are, who she is and what YOU want then you can be just as direct as you want.
E.g. If you decide you still want her then you can say to her, I want you and if you want me too then we can work on things under the following conditions... However, if you can't meet the conditions or you don't want to be with me then I will continue with my mission. Stig - your mission is to live life to the fullest, to be who you are and to be with only those people who want to be with the real you. NOT people who will kowtow to you but who will appreciate all you have to give. Maybe your WAW just isn't one of those people.

Take a note from Corri - have a great holiday doing exactly what YOU want to do.

Karen