Quote: Mines done. I wont ever allow myself to love another like I did her.
Well thank God for that. Should you love another like you did her, you're gonna create the same mess all over again... if you meant 'I will never love anyone as deeply or as intensely or open myself up to that kind of hurt again...' well, again... thank God. You'll have no reason to be a victim.
My Xmas wish for both you and Stig is that you gradually stop beating yourselves up for those boundaries (2 strikes and you're out rule)... most f'ing healthy thing you've probably ever done. It doesn't say in the manual that those little suckers hurt (boundaries) like the dickens sometimes...
I personally am in a place concluding that the hurt and the anxiety attacks that are the aftershocks of a broken R have NOTHING to do with love and my capacity for it.
Uhm... okay... I'm rambling.
Stig, hang the fcuk in there, dude. Xmas is a toughie, no doubt.
