Hi Lou,

Business inventory and peeing dogs: Much better than dividing up assets from a 34 year M.

Okay, I've guessed what ED means, but a pill will do this? Better watch it, she might put one into your coffee.

Had more trouble with SSDD.

So still no luck with turning on the W? By the way, just a thought (hope you don't think I'm too nosy). Are you pretty much in shape, not much overweight? Do you wear cologne, dress like a man wanting to court a woman, have your own hobies and interests but also share interests (outside of household stuff) with your W?

I used to give hints about those things when my H was living with me. Didn't do any good. Now he still has the same habits and wonders why he can't keep a woman very long.

My bf and I love to dance, hike, eat healthy, walk everywhere, stay fit, go to folk concerts, etc. We have much more in common than my H and I.

Have you taken your W on a date lately? I mean a real date with wine and the works? Still think she needs to wonder about you a little.

Maybe you could ask your W to help you set a date for making good the promise. Better yet, ask her to help you move the business inventory, make it a fun project, something to do together. Would she be open to this? Or is it YOUR stuff and HER stuff?

She has no idea how hard it would be if you found somebody else and you were not there to nag and vise versa.

Rere