I have read this thread with great interest....my WAH went dark on me for the better part of a year and half....one night we went out to a concert (I asked him to drive me because it was going to be late and I wasn't sure I could drive myself home).....we had a great time....he started kissing me.....I knew he had too much to drink but thought he knew what he was doing....next thing I know we are pretty intimate....things have been ok since that night....I still don't feel him wanting to be with me all the time but I do find him enjoying my company....I would like to feel desired and wanted but I can be patient....
He never gets jealous.....says he just isn't the jealous sort...me?...Oh I am all over on jealousy....hated when he had OW.....drove me crazy...
As for a W who isn't interested in sex....I know I had gotten into a lull a number of years ago....when I found my H looking for the passion on-line that he was lacking from me that woke me up and I found out that I could enjoy sex.....now I want it all the time.....before he left he was the one in a lull and I was the one asking all the time.....
I find it hard to not answer his calls, to not see him....I do make excuses to call....like the concert night.....he is my weakness....I have not really been involved with anyone else.....I had a brief EA.....after meeting the man I realized that I was not really attracted to him but rather the idea of him....so that died off.... now with my H back in the area and willing to show me signs of affection I don't feel the need for anyone else....I fantasize a lot about him.....he isn't a "looker" but he was always an awesome lover and just seeing him gets me worked up.....thus my inability to say "no" to him....
Sorry if this seems to ramble....just a lot of thoughts going through my head today....
