Same indifference? Maybe a longer vacation next time, with longer lapses between calls.
I've told H that I want the divorce, that I can't live in limbo any longer. He isn't willing to commit to me, give up dating other women and come home.
We had a date on Sat evening--dinner and a movie. He was moody, drove fast, didn't like the movie, wasn't fun to be around.
I asked him to take us to a bakery/cafe near the house. I bought dessert and told him I accepted the d. At one point he asked why I wanted to do it so fast (it isn't fast, since we had to be separated a year to file and we have 3 months to go).
I responded that I had to get on with my life. This is the truth. I've found someone who wants to commit to only me, and we have so much more in common than my H and I.
So we talked a little about dividing up up assets. Then H said someting about we could still remain friends. I responded with "No, we can't." I told him I basically wanted no contact at all except for business.
When he took me home and before I got out of the car he reached to kiss me. I backed away and said,"I don't think so." I guess he will realize that this time it's for real and I won't cave like I did before. He knows I have somebody else now, and that I still love him, but will not put up with his disrespect any longer.
