good! Now he knows the score. If he continues to ask you out you don't have to feel like you are hiding anything.
Quote: If your W thinks that you are interested in somebody else, this would probably change her stand on not being interested in Romantic intimacy
I was hoping you would not say that, mostly because I am not much of a game player and W would be major PO'ed. I never dated two girls at one time, so call me square if you want to or call me a person with standards.
W said no one would want me so she did not have to worry about anyone going out with me but asked if I had a girlfriend on the internet several times.
I was doing some GAL things with a male friend from an old job 20 years ago and W asked me if I was gay???? Like no way.
Getting turned down a couple times a week and getting action a couple times a month and I get accused of everything from being gay, to over sexed, to no one would want me???? It just showes how insecure W can be at times.
Quote: she just has to think that there might be a chance that she could lose you, and chances are this might bring her around.
Well this is true. When I said she could move out or I would because of her shoppping addiction in Jan 2003, (mostly cured now but it took 4 years for her to change) she got all chummy and jumped me in bed.
I am going on my first vacation since 1986 and she does not want to go, but gets chummy some days.
Because of other similar incidents, I know my W would want to be more physical with me, but it is usually after some movement or sign that we won't be together for a while.
Back to the reason I asked my origional question, how to get my W more interested in a romantic/physical relationship with out leaving or talking about leaving. No reply necessary Rere. You gave your opinion and I thank you for it.
If I had some information to help you with your H I would be more than willing to post it. It seems like you are doing all of the right things, being his best friend, sex, and etc for 7 months and he is still more interested in playing the field. Sorry that what you are doing is not working for you so far.
I suppose not interacting with your H after New Year's Day like you intend to do is the next step for you and at least give the hiking BF a chance to make you feel better.
I used to believe in the "One and only" but it is changing to something else.
