Lisa,

Great that you and Dave can have a professional and sports relationship.

One question, do you feel there's any chance that your friendship might lead to something more at some point down the road?

I just had a wonderful date tonight. He brought me roses and took me to an expensive restaurant.

I have a date Friday with the other man. This one is very attracted to me and wants an exclusive relationship "when I'm ready," he says.

I know if I continue to see him that I really have to not break the "no contact" with my H. He wanted to be sure that the R between H and me is over. I assured him that it was, but am seriously thinking of going to the RV on Thursday to see H.

I just don't know what to do. I want so much to be with my H at least part of the time for Christmas. It's just so painful to even think of not seeing him. So you see I can't stop the pattern of breaking up and going back.

Rere