I've been responding to jeanb's sitch. We do have a lot in common, except our ages. But the SL sitches are very similiar.
I do have a date tonight, and like I said, he's a little strange. He's 9 years younger than I, and sometimes calls and cancels like last night (said he fell and cracked some ribs (he paints commercial places). Anyway, he did call me about 6 times last night. I don't feel that much will come of this, but at least it gets my mind off of my H for awhile.
It sounds like I'll have to read up on the "mysterious" things that you are suggesting to HopeFl. I beleive that the mystery and 180s do keep them wondering and curious.
You know, Strong&S, I'm having thoughts of going to the RV after my date tonight. For one thing, my date (he's Italian) will take me to a nice restaurant and we'll have a little wine, so I'll be in a good mood. Maybe I should just go and say "hi" to my H and of course I'll mention where I've been and with whom. I know--I'm beyond hope and not at all conventional. When you get to be my age and a person 9 years younger than you wants to see you, this shows you that a little botox works wonders!!!