Not really an expert as I am still in deep sh*t but for what its worth...here are my comments.
"There's no other woman in your age catagory who has a body like yours, nobody as trim and in such good shape." I think this is quite common in WAS who continues to have a physical R with the LBS, as in "your are better in bed, you are more beautiful, you have rounder br@asts than ow,m it's more enjoyable with you blah blah blah". It happened in my sitch, and I think it's the same with KDU's. Us, LBS will be wondering "If I am so great blah blah blah, WTF are you still with ow??" I am sure you are wondering that... As for whether he has seen the ow naked and had a physical R, just accept that he had. You would be in denial if you think he has not. Sorry..but that's the truth. I found out the hard way in my case.
Yoyogirl, I didn't understand "harping about the s@x and how could they not feel more"? Can you elaborate? Do you mean sex? Let me know so I can reply.
What I meant was we ladies tend to expect him to feel the love, the tenderness, the closeness blah blah blah and expect to see some kind of "sign" after the s@x session. And when we don't see it, we will be disappointed. Although we may not be complaining in a verbal sense (i.e. the harping), we will communicate it in either in our body language or in our tone of voice. And he will take it that you are expecting an exchange of "commitment etc" with the s@x that you've given. And because he cannot provide the commitment that you yearn for, he feels the guilt. Am I making sense?
