Thanks Yoyogirl and Strong&Sassy for your responses.
As far as sex goes, what makes my sitch so different is that we basically had no SL before he left seven months ago. It was stale, horrible, I didn't like it, I really didn't want to live with him until he threw the bomb. Sooo our new SL is a total 180 for me. And it has brought us closer, but not close enough that he only wants me and will come home. I think he feels that we had over 30 years together and it only got worse. I know he's afraid to try again. But the REAL reason is that he's looking for greener grass.
It's funny, he claims there's been no sex with these OW, but last night he looked at my body and said, "There's no other woman in your age catagory who has a body like yours, nobody as trim and in such good shape."
Now, mind you, I was nude when he said this, which makes me feel that he's seen some of these women naked.
Any of you read the same thing into this remark or is it all in my head?
Yoyogirl, I didn't understand "harping about the s@x and how could they not feel more"? Can you elaborate? Do you mean sex? Let me know so I can reply.
I think that casual occasional sex with the WAS might push him/her away. But our SL has been every week for seven months. I would say that's pretty regular.
Okay I've just gone dark, and already thinking I would like to go to the RV one night soon and take it all back.
