I think I'm very together. My ex isn't with me. The snippet of my NC experience was back in the Spring, and I've come to certain more understandings about my sitch since then. But suffice it to say that she kept poking her head through the door but never steps through it, and continues to do so, and that's a pretty good way to prompt them to poke their head through the door (matter of fact, I had said to her, "what would you do if I never contacted you again?" and she said, sheepishly, "I'd probably contact you"). It's also a great way to have a break from the sitch.
My ex isn't with me. The snippet of my NC experience was back in the Spring, and I've come to certain more understandings about my sitch since then. But suffice it to say that she kept poking her head through the door but never steps through it, and continues to do so, and that's a pretty good way to prompt them to poke their head through the door (matter of fact, I had said to her, "what would you do if I never contacted you again?" and she said, sheepishly, "I'd probably contact you"). It's also a great way to have a break from the sitch. 