Spent night with H, told him goodbye this morning

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Now, by going no contact on him, you let go so that he can't get what he wants from you, and more importantly, you can use this time to build yourself up and focus on yourself. He'll use the time to seek his fantasy and probably find the grass isn't greener. He'll also now be able to build up feelings of missing you, and perhaps dig deep into himself to figure out what he really wants, which he couldn't do before.

I think alot of us can benefit from this advice.

I do have a question for you; maybe it is too soon for you to answer this. Since you are married, there will no doubt be things that come up that you might have to discuss with your H. I'm not talking about R. things; but things involving house, finances, kids (if this applies), etc.
So what do you do if you're implimenting NC and you actually have a matter that you need to discuss with your H?