I just looked at your thread, you must have been married to my wife's twin sister. Do a search for jdd and check some of the bs my x has done. Very similar, bipolar and changing her mind every other month or two on which man is her "soulmate" ( I'm sorry but the word makes me ill).
Until your X wants help, gets C and proper medication and gives herself back to the Lord, she is only going to drag you down. Its easier said than done, believe me I know how hard it is to let go, especially with my faith and children involved, but we have to move on. We alone can not fix or control anything except what we do.
