Quote: I've been through 2 years of IC and my C doesn't seem to have a problem with my attitude towards my X other than the fact he hates to see me not finding someone who is more emotionally my equal
That sounds like a smart thing. The X's definitely make bad choices and as guys we want to be knight in shining armor, but my concern would be...if she was willing to leave her present marriage for you, what would stop her from leaving a relationship with you for someone else? It sounds like your IC is on to something in regards to someone who emotionally is your equal.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
