"So tonight, I am hoping to make some better memories with H at this restaurant"
That's a good plan, you need to replace the memories of "bad date with H leading to OM" with "this is a place I had a good time with H." Important in moving on with your life.
"I better get a hot kiss if nothing else! "
Just had to laugh at that one. Are you going to demand a hot kiss with THAT expression on your face? LOL
"Part of me wants to tell him again but what point would I be making?"
No point to be made. The past is the past. That was long enough ago that it is no longer the pattern of your life right now.
"I am just going to play it cool and act "as if" and have a good time."
Don't act, do. Have a good time, whether there is a hot kiss or not. Picture the situation. Your "date" is having a great time, all smiles, laughing, talking, joking ... or your "date" is sitting there frowing, looking at you expectantly, fidgeting uncomfortably, looking hurt. Which one would you want to kiss?
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
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