Your post sounded to me as if you already have expectations of what your H should do tonight...or you're going to be angry. Maybe I misread your post....but that was the feeling I got from it. If you go out with that "vibe" attached to this place...don't go there, go somewhere else. You can always tell him...."would you mind if we go xyz? I'm really in the mood for (whatever type food they have)."
I guess...after reading many of your posts, I have this feeling that you might find yourself sitting at dinner...waiting, watching, and expecting for him to do something, which will in turn send out a vibe (if you will) that could push him away....and tick you right off.
If you do go to this particular place....leave your expecations at home. It's not easy, but try.
