Oh Honeypot, you always cheer me up. You're an inspiration! Once again, I know logically what I should be doing but I don't do it because it doesn't feel good/right/comfortable whatever. Maybe my H says the same thing about expressing his emotions.
Have you ever told him that you feel he closes himself off from you and doesn't let you see the 'real' him? Of course my answer is yes. But his response is the same as a said to Nop, looks at me like I'm nutty. And/or will then go into the pc response of how he is working on this and knows he needs to improve, that I deserve someone who can be real with me, blah blah. Trust me, he can say all the right things at times. Right not to be confused with Real or the response I am truly wanting. He doesn't seem to get that part AT ALL. I would welcome him going off on me about OM, about anything! But he won't because he thinks too much, doesn't feel. Can logic his way to any response. His C just told him this last week which is helpful. But once again, he hears what she is saying but can't really FEEL it. Feel the fact that his unemotional reactions are going to tear us apart. If he did, he would be responding, right? So I just don't know.
the housecleaning was what I was talking about drats. Say it ain't so HP. I'm probably putting this need into the "I'm not going to give him 100% until.." category.
I have heard that Marriage Encounter weekends are good for learning how to disclose your inner selves; what about something like this? Maybe something Like that, but if it is religious-based H will not be interested in it. He is OFF religion for now.
