You're right, you can't force trust. Along the same vein, you can't completely trust anyone. I trust my wife, but not completely. I think that would be very unhealthy in any relationship.
I think that the two of you really need to share some honesty between you, especially him. My instincts tell me all is not as it seems, or has been stated.
Again, why don't you go first and see what happens.
Edited to add: MrsNOP could have all kinds of secret accounts, but that type of secrecy is very difficult when all other areas of your life are 'open book'.
-NOPkins-
Last edited by NOPkins; 01/09/0606:17 PM.
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
