Quote: ---------------------------------------------- Interstingly enough, H says he really has no issues with me seeing om. ----------------------------------------------
Okay, so he is either wallowing in the guilt of his abandonment, or he is hiding something that he did while separated.
Which do you think it is?
I promise you, movies of your relationship with other man play in his head.
Both of you must process his abandonment and your affair before you are going to find real intimacy in your lives. You really can't meet each others needs while eating a bunch of resentment. No ostriches.
A direct question for you. Have you been in contact with the other man, or is there someone you currently have an interest in?
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
