I am curious, and I mean no harm, but with all the talk of all the major damage he did to the relationship, I am wondering how the two of you have processed all the issues he has regarding your physical relationship with another person during the separation.
Unless I have missed something in your situation, your husband has issues with you, and if he is anything like most males, they are major issues.
I don't see how it is that he is the only culpable one in your relationship.
It seems to me that your sense of entitlement is growing to large proportions. I am wondering why.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.