I'm sorry. Take a deep breath and try to just be. This particular argument, phone call etc... may have meaning, it may not. Just try to comfort yourself, center yourself and things will eventuallly shake out one way or the other. It is good to fight for a M and sometimes it is good to stop fighting that windmill and just fight for your own sanity. I'm not saying to D or not to D. I'm just saying to take care of yourself and the rest will unfold over time.
Take care of yourself and try to have a Happy New Year!
