Sure, you can ask. How big can I hijack your thread? I'll post soon, but it was another eye opener to me just how much H does not want me to be any part of his life.

Hey, but for you.....way to go on the email. How about asking the daycare lady to send an email to your H directly? then he would know you're not drumming up reasons (even if you are).

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.