Not exactly a rule against it, just a general dislike of being turned down. Know what that's like?
Offering to make the travel arrangements for AK to here is unrealistic, given that he probably doesn't even know if he has leave yet. He'll have to do that. But, I suppose I could get ballsy and ask him if he plans on flying into this area so I can still spend time with him even when I have to work, and he can get a couple home improvement projects done while I'm at the office.
But, act as if, right?
Yeah I guess I better suggest this stuff to him in an email soon. But, my last two emails went unanswered, so I might wait until I hear from him again.
How is it that I'm so confident he'll be ready to do the handyman projects, but when it comes to leaving S3 with my mom and spend JUST TWO DAYS alone with each other...I cringe at his disappointing response.
No, I haven't asked him to do this yet. And I will. But I guess I'm taking his last visit too much to heart. Especially since it was the first time I'd seen him since we had re-established the relationship. But when I suggested we spend a couple days alone he just changed the subject. And even though he suggested we go out one evening, I had to push him to actually make it happen.
