Hey Opti, any chance you could take some time to bounce over to Support for Marital problem board and read up on Amethyst68? H is military, maybe you can pick up on something going on and could help a bit.

Hope things are okay with you. Just to rub it in, snow is all gone, and where there isn't mud it's turning green.

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Riding the trail less traveled.