You are very wise, recognizing problems ahead when you're together. You've got plenty of time to think about it.
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And I've heard so many DBers say it's always better to be living with your spouse than to separate, even temporarily


I've always thought so, but it is NOT easy, either way. I can never figure out if absence makes the heart grow fonder, or if it's out of sight, out of mind. I don't know which applies to me. I just keep hoping and waiting for my H to wake up and come back, like so many others write about. sigh.

Did you like Alaska? how long were you there?


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.