I just posted over at your thread. It's good to find someone who knows about the complications of military separations.
Email comms was the key to developing a kinder R between H and I. Who would have thought. I always figured it wasn't "real" unless you said it face to face. And I've always felt lacking because I'm so horrible at leveling about my feelings face to face with people I love. And here I find out my flaw is an asset!
Email is great because you can plan out exactly what you're going to say. You can re-read and erase and revise... Maybe I should write a text book on restoring M through cyberspace (that's a joke-honestly, I haven't suddenly become that cocky!)
Basically, I DBd through email, which is SO MUCH easier than doing it in person. Because in person, people respond to you on the spot and usually not according the script you prepared. I imagin DBing on the phone would be more difficult than email. So maybe it's a good thing that H never calls (with hint of bitterness)
RonJon, if you ever want my input on anything and you're willing to take your chances on the validity of my opinion, I'm here!
(with hint of bitterness) 
