Is there a way OW can find out? I don't have any suggestions, but i'd be tempted to find a way for her to find out. She has to wonder where he is on the nights he is not with her. There was a post about the things people had done when their H was with an OW, spray perfume, lipstick on the collar, lots of vengeful things. You could "mark" him as yours
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