Good Sex but now trouble detaching!

[Becca1975]

Wow, sounds like your H is getting the best of all worlds. No responsibility, sex no matter where he stays. You could play this one of two ways.

#1. Cut him off, give him a dose of what life is like with no sex from you and no staying at your place. Sleep on teh street for a while and see how that feels buddy.

#2, keep doing what you are doing and OW will eventually begin to push him for more committment, which he won't like and will come running back to you as she gets more emotional and needy.