I know I'm seeing other people, but I love my H and would give it up if he would come home.
I guess if I found out that the OWs had said goodbye (I don't think he would end it) that probably wouldn't change anything. Thanks for pointing this out to me! Sometimes a person not involved in the sitch can see things more clearly.
I know I need to concentrate on my goals more. The problem is I don't know if backing off from him would put me out of mind or make his heart grow fonder. It seems the general opinion is that backing off works the best. But every WAS is different. Mine has been acting more wierd lately, like taking off his glasses when we're talking or eating in a restaurant. Of course, he may have read that this would help his vision. But he's complained that without his glasses he can see very little. Guess I'm reading too much into little things. And concentrating on the OP will not help my H and me.
