Affair lasted from Sept 03 until Dec 04--14 months. I found out about OW May 04. There were many false endings after that. I think OW is definitely out of the picture this time. Slow recovery. I started DBing in Aug 04. I do think it really helped make H unsure about leaving me and the kids.


Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012