Affair lasted from Sept 03 until Dec 04--14 months. I found out about OW May 04. There were many false endings after that. I think OW is definitely out of the picture this time. Slow recovery. I started DBing in Aug 04. I do think it really helped make H unsure about leaving me and the kids.
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012