Ok, this is the kind of post that I've been waiting to read. First of all, congratulations on his return and the ILY. I think it's great that you are taking it slowly. This shows the pinball bouncing of how these WAS's act. And it seems like a lot of the posts I read on this website that involve eventual reconciliations had the same element...it was only after the big D was in process (via paperwork), that WAS realized that was not what he/she wanted, and finally came back home. The ultimate reality check I guess. I'm sorry for what you have been through emotionally...12 months is a very long time. But, good to hear that you're working it out now!
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
