Poll: How long did the affair last?

[kaydeekay]

My H A began as an EA Sept. 04 and then moved to a PA Dec. 04. I actually found out about A in Feb. 05.

H came and left 5 different times. H left: 1) Wanted some space between us. Returned to try and work on things. 2) H believed things would not change between us. Returns because he misses me. 3) Came clean about A. (has D papers drawn up) Returns becuase OW was not what he thought she was. 4) Misses OW terribly and wants to be with her. Returns because he wants to do the right thing. 5) Still misses skank and asks for D and filed papers. Two months after filing D, OW and H get into fight and he returns for last time (on 9/11).

We have taken things verrrry slow right now. H told me he loved me last night for the first time.

H's A lasted a little over 12 months. DBing did work for me personally, whether my H came back home or not.