He began an EA online 3 months before he left, then left the day after he met her. She decided she didn't want him, but he pursued her for months afterwards until she told him no contact.
Since then, he's been dating from the dating site and also dating me. He won't tell me anything anymore, bur I think he's had this one about two months. I've also begun dating to try and ease the pain and lonliness. We have a year's wait after separation to file for divorce in our state.
He still sees me and we have a sexual relationship. He claims he hasn't had sex with any of the women yet.
I believe the first one who dumped him was the reason he's been looking for more. It would probably have been better if she had dated him, as she is a fantasy that could never be lived up to.
I've been Dbing for six out of the seven months. It doesn't seem to work any differently whether he's with one or not, except he doesn't call as much. I have pursued him most of the time.
I think he may be a little jealous of the men I'm dating recently, though he tries to hide this. Our physical relationship is better than it has ever been and our R has improved, but he still refused to come home. I will even spend time with him over Christmas.
Like I said, he refuses to discuss his relationships, though I discuss mine openly with him.
