I'm curious too about the answer to your questions...It seems like there should be *some* sort of justice in this situation, even if that justice comes in the form of a monthly check! No one deserves to go through what you're dealing with right now, so does money at least help? I don't know either!!
I look forward to seeing some responses from those who have more insight! It just isn't fair that these guys can turn into major jerks, want to end the marriage, have an affair, file for divorce AND somehow come out okay financially! I say destroy him, but I speak out of a lot of anger right now from my sitch too!
Isn't it weird how so many people on this board are experiencing a decline in their situation? Our WAS must be feeling the pressure of messing everything up around Christmas! I hope they all feel terrible, empty and lonely on Christmas Day!
