So, you're looking at using adultery for grounds in order to obtain a better settlement, do I have the right sense of things now?
Bingo, NYS! As the WAS thinks only of himself -- and the OW thinks only of herself -- in at least my case, the LBS will also think of only herself...and her unborn child, of course.
And it's not only the settlement. It's the truth. My H has been walking around for 3 months saying the baby I'm carrying might not be his. He has attempted to damage *my* character when in fact, he's been the one double-dippin', if you will. I'm a champion of the truth, and exposing it, and I like getting to the bottom of things. I also like justice. So that's what I'm going after. It's not just a settlement, IMHO.
"But I want to rattle her cage a little, in the hopes that she thinks twice before doing this to anyone else."... that the OP isn't "doing" anything to anybody, they're doing it for themselves. Hope I'm clearer now.
Actually, they *are* doing something to somebody, but that's not how the OP views it. They're selfish. So my future goal remains: To make OW think twice, indeed, before doing this to anyone else.
