Hey P&Db, I know I just write like 5 minutes ago maybe you should give it time, and I still stand by that, but I also agree that you have to do what is best for you and your children. I feel the same way. I'll fight for my M as long as I can, but after that, I will fight with my for my children. I hate saying it, but we , meaning you and I as mothers, have to do what is best for our children. Sure they can go out and play with their little girlfriends and have "the life they always wanted", as long as they show us the money first! HEHE!!