Hey, caverna! Thanks so much for stopping by. No, I'm not sure I want to actually move forward with a lawsuit against OW. Like I said, that's mainly to get leverage against H in the future. But I want to rattle her cage a little, in the hopes that she thinks twice before doing this to anyone else.
You're right about wanting and needing, and taking H back after the goodbye sex. All I can do right now is speculate on how I would've reacted if that was *all* that happened -- in other words, if I had not found out that they've been carrying on a sexual relationship since at least October and talking on the phone 13 times on some days.
The "goodbye" sex was just the icing on the cake. Finding out the other stuff is what hurt a lot worse.
