Hey Preggo, you gotta do what you gotta do especially with children (one as yet unborn) involved. And I have to say if the man didn't know you would react like this then he didn't know you very well. I have known you what, coupla months, on the internet for God's sake and could have predicted that the can of whoopass would be broken out if anybody intentionally hurt you.
Please, concentrate on yourself and that baby and leave him out of your head for a bit. We're with you for the ride girl.
