Hey P&DB, I juts wanted to stop in and tell you I'm still reading up on you. I have een, but I was so angry when I read what he did to you, it was a good thing for me not to post. After thinking about you for a couple of day, the only advice I can give , and you know my sitch, is maybe let everything cool down for a while. Your H sounds really messed up right now. I'm not making excuses for him, b/c what he id is just not right, especially saying the whole "I gave you a chance" bull crap, but maybe you two just need a big breather.
I know how you feel, if that happened to me, I would want to give up. But I know that I need to stick it out.
So maybe just give it some time to heal up a bit.
Thanks for checkin in on my post, I was starting to feel like I was all alone.
