VJ, You're a breath of fresh air. And I believe you're right. But after my H said, "F*ck that child," on top of all the insults he was unleashing at me, the last thing I thought was that forgiveness is possible. That's crossing the line. I told him I could've forgiven him for OW, and for being with her. And he continued to lash out, saying, "I don't need your forgiveness. I don't care what you think. I don't want to be with you anymore. I never did," blah, blah, blah.
And yes, that hurt. But for him to bring up his "really, really like" for her at the same time he's telling me that my unborn child can go to he!!, well, I just don't have much room in my heart for forgiveness after that. I have a little compassion left. But I'm not sure how much longer that's going to last either.
Maybe I'll feel differently tomorrow. I always seem to.
Thanks again, and stay in touch. You're helping me find my center again.
