My name is Theresa and I am in a similar situation, I am 7 wks pregnant and my M is falling apart. My H is living at home but it is like we are separated. We have been M for almost 9 years and have been informed he is not nor has he ever been attracted to me and did not ever love me. He is not happy about the baby. I was the one trying to work on the M. I too have stepped out and have become detatched from the M. I wish you luck and what a crappy situation and hope that you become stronger!!! I hope you have a ton of support, it seems like these boards are very good. We are in counseling but right now I feel like walking away and throwing my hands up. Of course that could be the hormones!!!