...Holy crap!!! I'm on a roll. I just had another revelation. (Yes, again, I'm very angry right now; glad I have the boards to vent to).
Saturday night, after H takes me out on a kicka$$ date, we get home, and we're lying on the couch, and he says, "Wanna go upstairs and ML?"
ML? ML???????????? Is that what that is? Love????
But here's the revelation:
He's following a pattern here. He did this same thing -- the "goodbye" sex -- with his XGF after he had been seeing me for a month. That's right. He's done this before. But that time, he came crawling to my house, crying, bringing my flowers, because he was "so upset" about what he had done.
But he did it. The only difference is that this time, he's justifying what he did, saying, "Well, I'm not freaked out, either. I mean, I told you about her...she just called to see if she could bring me lunch, and we decided to have sex." Ackhole!!!!