Do you think, by not confronting him, that he's taking that as me telling him it's okay to keep doing it? That I'm okay with it?... I don't know what to do. Do I let him know it hurt? Does he know that? Do I continue acting like I am -- like it's his life, and it's okay?
Confronting him... won't accomplish much if that's what he wants to do, right? Show by your actions and not your words that this is not acceptable to you. However, it is his life, his choice, at this time, though certainly not acceptable to you.