I'm pregnant. He's sleeping with OW.

[Becca1975]

See....I'm one of those people who would love to see you tell him to go to hell, but I also know that I'm not married to the guy. Only you can make that call.

I definately would not pretend like it is ok, because it is NOT. SOmeone who intends to work out their marriage doesn't just decide to sleep with someone else. I guess I assumed it was the first time, but maybe not. Sounds like to me he tried to slip a "free" one in there before he recommitted. I'd make sure he knew that what he did was horribly wrong and hurt you so much. Maybe a good time for you to show that vulnerability that we talked about. Let him see you hurt.