Yeah, I'm pretty stunned. Haven't shed a tear yet. I'm sure it's anger. Sadness and humiliation will set in one of these days.
Confronting him will do no good, though I wish I could bitch slap his a$$ if you wanna know the truth. But what would confronting him do? It would give him everything he needs to come back and say, "See, this is why I left you."
I certainly won't dignify what he did by giving him any excuses. What's done is done.
I wish I could've been a fly on the wall when it was all said and done. She actually stayed there for another 20 minutes or so after I left. Wonder if I caught him midstream. I bet his sh!t shriveled up quicker than you can snap your fingers.