Hey, Becca. This is such devastating news. I don't know what he'll do next. The only thing I can do, I suppose, is crawl back in my dark hole here.
I forgot to add a couple things. H, when he called me, said, "What did you think I was going to be doing when you walked in?" I said, "I didn't know. I didn't know whose car was in the driveway. It could've been a business person for all I know." And he said, "In my bed??" I said, "Well, obviously I didn't know you were in the bed with someone when I came in." Again, I apologized for interrupting him. At some point in the conversation, he said, "That was a really cool gift, by the way."
I've already called my atty to let him know what went down. Left him a message to see how, if at all, this plays into things. I'm wondering, since we're separated -- though we haven't signed a separation agreement -- if it's okay for him to continue with his life as he deems fit.
I don't really care, actually, about the legal end. I know this is bad karma for me, but I'm just hoping this is playing on his conscience. I hope he feels horrible for what just happened. If he's like every other guy I know, he's not feeling bad about the act -- just that he was caught in it.
