my sits is below on "WAW is having and affiar"...anyway...wife is getting apt and I was planning on being in the house while she is moving, in fact I was going to help her get movers...but she said that she didn't want me going to her new apt because she thinks it would be too weird...of course it might be that she doesn't want me to know where she lives to see OM...well the question is do I stay here and help or do I say that it's too hard for me and leave...and do I leave a little note of love or support...or do I continue with DB and act like I have moved on and it doesn't really bother me? Help!
