That had to be such difficult news to hear. I know you had your suspicions but its another thing to know it is a reality and that it happened a while ago. And I'm sure this has been tough on D13. Your XW might have asked her to keep the news from you. She is such a smart, sweet girl and I'm sure this has taken a toll on her. That's alot of crap for a 13 year old to handle. I know you'll keep being the steady, reliable parent. She wants and needs that from you and you have done such a terrific job!
Go ahead and feel blue today. It's okay. You'll probably rebound much faster than you think. You don't know that things are so wonderful. But does it really matter? It's time for you to heal and then move on to your next adventure. And I'm sure you will find it!
Take care and I'm sending hugs your way...
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
