Crazee, I here you man. I'm only 10 weeks since the bomb, 4 weeks since the OM info and 2 weeks into the move out. I currently have pics, phone bills and other info. It made me feel better to know.
Lately I have realized through the DB friends here and a few other resources that all that stuff is a waste of time. I have changed myself. I was controlling in a Salesman kinda way. I am not anymore.
Here is a link that is more about the infidelity and helped me understand it even more than the DB chapter. Infidelity Info
